I don't get it, why do people drag it out and

[pozo]

I don't get it, why do people drag it out and lie about relationships. When something ends, why can't it just end, especially by the person that decides to end it. Wasted a month but officially ended it again tonight, but this time on my own terms. Why do I feel this wont be the last i hear from this person. THey just drag on the misery. Why? I was over it, then allowed them back in, and now here it is again. However I have learned from prior relationships, you see the signs it's over early, and if you don't trust that, it will hurt even more.

[denny]

emotions are messy

[Sherman]

Hi Easy

[helming]

^Dr. Spock

[struthers]

because breaking up sucks!

[Christiana]

^^that

[fallon]

I know it does but why can't it just be done and over with. I am where I was 40 days ago, but after the first 5 I was fine, then that person told me how much they loved me and couldn't imagine not being with me. Then it became distant, then just 10 days ago said the same. Now distant and tells me they don't know what they want. And at one time she told me she wishes I would just walk away. So I did.

[kotowski]

you need to decide and make it stick don't take her s or her texts or emails and truly set yourself on a course that leads away from her. she's being very disrespectful by stringing you along this way. does she even realize that you have feelings and don't deserve being mind fucked?

[keeny]

She does, or she should know I should not be dragged along. I made sure she knew how I felt and she replied she doesn't know what she wants. Well, that means it's time for me to just leave forever. Can't take the feelings hurt anymore or the anxiety of being strung along. Worst part, I don't even want to see any girls right now. It's like I am uni sexual now. I said this before meeting her, but now it's Official. I hate girls.

[Orelie]

we cling on to the familiar

[celona]

is there a new crowd here

[severt]

We let our emotions rule us sometimes.

[beecham]

the last time around it dragged on for x months. i got really depressed. it was bad.

[mentzel]

I had a year drag on it ended even uglier. So I cut it short this time just a month. FIgured if that person could not make time for me or their mind, well they just aren't that into me no matter what they say.

[heinicke]

some people aren't in a big hurry to walk away

[butala]

Look, the fact that they dated you meant that you had qualities they were drawn to. They may still be drawn to some of them even if it isn't enough to make it work. However YOU do not have to put up with someone else vacillating if it is painful for you. Next time they tell them that you are sorry but if they don't want to date you then you need to take time away from them

[woollard]

I outlined that last part I will not contact that person. But I feel I will get a phone in x weeks or a random bar appearance by them. That person will say I am sorry, I love you, miss you and want me in their life. But do I take them back? I tried to the last time even though I said I shouldn't. This time I know I will not.

[schack]

xnd chances only confirm why folks aren't meant to be together

[morman]

I have realized this and it's final now